| The
challenge contained in the 3 energy is what you need to
overcome in order to create the destiny of your
choice. Failing to learn these lessons acts as a
barrier to your happiness and success. In other
words, this can be your downfall, if you allow it to
be. What makes the challenge so difficult to
overcome is that you will tend to deny that it
exists. And the more you deny it, the more it will
stand between you and your marvelous potential. The 3 challenge can make you overreact to the mundane aspects of your day-to- day existence. This can make you feel sorely disappointed with your “lot” in life. Then, rather than be seen as “down”, you will want to give the impression that you totally accept and love your life the way it is. Exaggerated bouts of happiness are usually followed by what you believe is an acceptance of reality - and this makes you depressed. These mood swings can be difficult for others to understand or keep up with. Of course, your perception of reality is where the problem lies. This stems from a childhood in which too much or too little attention was paid to your physical appearance and/or your academic or creative abilities. This has resulted in a level of self-consciousness which is hard to disguise in social situations. You are afraid of the limelight and, yet, deep inside you crave it. At least, you would like to have your share of it. The real challenge here is to be able to communicate without fear of what others may or may not be thinking of you. An outward sign of this challenge is having to clear your throat before you speak. Until this fear is overcome, you can pendulate between being painfully shy or too outgoing; too mired in superiority feelings or too crippled by iferiority feelings. The belief that you were not being taken seriously enough as a child may have produced an adult who, despite great ideas, cannot take him or herself seriously enough to make them happen. You can also become quite jealous of those who are not challenged in this way. In order to turn this challenge into a talent, you must admit that you want to be liked and admired by everyone. You must admit that you NEED attention. You must admit that you need to share your ideas and feelings with others. Above all, you must understand that you were born to communicate. Then you will realize that you do, indeed, have something valid and important to contribute to others and to life itself - something which can make your life spectacular. |