Family Numbers
You can tell a lot about you and your relatives from the common name you share.
The family number represents an important lesson you chose to learn together, and it can be
a difficult lesson, until you accept its presence in your lives. Knowing the nature of your family's
energy can bring harmony to these precious relationships and can even help to heal the wounds that
are often incurred simply from being so closely related.
This knowledge can also help reduce the risk of inherited disease by understanding the type of stress
that your family number produces.
First, you need to convert the letters of your family name into numbers, using the following table:
A, J, S = 1
B, K, T = 2
C, L, U = 3
D, M, V = 4
E, N, W = 5
F, O, X = 6
G, P, Y = 7
H, Q, Z = 8
I, R = 9
Example: if your family name is JACKSON, you would add:
1 + 1 + 3 + 2 + 1 + 6 + 5 = 19
Keep adding until you obtain a single number, i.e.
1 + 9 = 10 1 + 0 = 1
The JACKSON family number is 1.
As always, please be sure to double-check your calculations
The 1 family came together so that its members could learn about INDEPENDENCE, ORIGINALITY, INDIVIDUALITY, CHANGE,
MASCULINE ENERGY, COMPETITION, and LEADERSHIP. The 1 family has a rather competitive streak. They like to be first.
They like to lead. And, usually, each generation can boast a family member who is the first at something: i.e. the
first in the family to attend university; the first in the family to have twins; the first in the family to become
famous; the first doctor; the first teacher etc. Independence is one of the most important things for this family
to learn about, especially independence from peer pressure. Problems arise when they strive to impress others rather
than themselves, or when they become so enthralled by the success of others that they feel they must emulate them.
Originality is an equally important lesson for this family to learn. When they do, what an impressive bunch they
can be. However, this is a strong masculine energy which does tend to regard emotional expression as a weakness
rather than a strength. But, as time passes and they learn about the positive power of their feelings, they
will also allow the true depth of their love and compassion to emerge. Knowing that they do not always have to be
strong, invincible, and in control of their emotions will also enable them to heal from their own life-traumas with
much more ease. Another important lesson is individuality, both within the family and outside in the big world.
The potential for creative achievement is enormous, but this family must learn that there is no set way to "be"
and that one person's idea of success or happiness, or even love, is not necessarily another's.
The root cause of what we call hereditary disease can be found in one's family number. By
reducing the stress that this number produces, you can reduce the possibility of hereditary diseases which affect
the eyes, heart, lungs, and blood pressure. This family's stress is caused by over-competitiveness and the fear
of being wrong.
The 2 family came together so that its members could learn about CONNECTION, EMOTION, INTUITION, PEACE, PATIENCE, FEMININE
ENERGY, and OPENNESS.
The 2 family is usually dominated by a strong feminine influence. They are rather meticulous in their habits, and they
love to get deeply into the detail of things. If there is imbalance between the status of the sexes, a "martyr complex"
can develop throughout the family which can result in putting each other on some very uncomfortable and completely unnecessary
guilt trips. Total openness, without turning everything into a major drama and taking everything personally, is what the 2 family
really needs. They must learn that in order to get what they want, they must speak up and not assume that others instinctively
know what to do. For the most part, this group sticks together even when there are serious problems between them -- not so much
out of a sense of loyalty but, rather, out of empathy for each other. There is a lot of love here. There is also a sense of
propriety which exudes patience, tact, and diplomacy. They are careful with the words they speak. Again, however, if they take
this trait to extremes, their true feelings - which are very strong indeed - may never be expressed. Openness usually starts with
each other and is then enjoyed in the outside world. At that point, the 2 family becomes a kind of common-denominator - a family
through which valuable connections can be made and peaceful solutions can be found. They know a diverse number of people who can
be useful to each other and, because they are so sensitive to feelings, they can be wonderful mediators and helpful, caring, and
cooperative neighbors.
The root cause of what we call hereditary disease can be found in one's family number. By reducing the
stress that this number produces, you can reduce the possibility of hereditary diseases such as diabetes, tumors, ulcers,
hemorrhoids, and disorders of the circulatory and/or reproductive systems. The 2 family stress is caused by over-sensitivity
and harboring secret grudges.
The 3 family came together so that its members could learn about CHILDREN, HAPPINESS, FRIENDSHIP, CREATIVITY, BEAUTY, INNOCENCE,
and OPEN COMMUNICATION. When 3's master the art of conversation instead of stopping communication in its tracks, their
words are not only remembered but so, too, are their rather unique voices. However, individual desires can often go unsatisfied
in the 3 family because of its need for acceptance from others. They are often tested by circumstances which create "enforced
silence " so that certain issues cannot be discussed - or even mentioned - for fear of upsetting someone. The feelings
involved become trapped, and conversation is then limited to trivial matters, gossip, and hearsay. Generally, they give the
appearance of happiness, friendliness, and good humor, but when feelings are being held in like this, 3 families can be extremely
critical, particularly of other peoples' looks, dress, speech, and general appearance, and can be overly concerned with
their own appearance. They often struggle to take themselves and others seriously, concealing their criticisms with what they
believe is a sense of humor. This behavior is caused by a low self-esteem which, in turn, is caused by guilt. And this guilt
usually stems from that very topic which they believe they cannot talk about. Rather than face this needless guilt, 3 family
members are prone to throwing tantrums, or emphatically changing the subject in some other way. They must learn to heal from
the past, without casting blame, because no family has a higher potential to experience pure joy and deep friendship than the 3
family. Warm and meaningful conversation and unrestricted creative expression can deepen the 3 experience. 3s must learn to
recognize their magnificent potential and then take whatever steps are necessary to create their individual lives according to
their individual feelings and desires. Creativity must be allowed to flourish
The root cause of what we call hereditary disease can be found in one's family number. By reducing the stress that this
number produces, you can reduce the possibility of hereditary diseases which effect the throat, liver, skin, urinary tract, blood
pressure, and digestive system. The 3 family stress is caused by peer pressure, keeping up appearances, addictions of any kind,
unexpressed feelings, and lack of creative purpose.
The 4 family came together so that its members could learn about EFFORT, SUCCESS THROUGH HARD WORK, MECHANISM, BREAKTHROUGH,
ORDER, TOLERANCE, and OVERCOMING LIMITATION. The 4 family have tendencies which, to the outside world, can seem rather odd and
unusual and, at the same time, are very serious in their approach to life. They want to have the latest gadgets and are
fascinated by the mechanics of just about everything. But it is their seriousness, especially concerning work-related matters,
that is most noticeable in this group. No matter how outrageous or eccentric they try to be, no matter how free and easy they
seem on the outside, these people have inherited a no-frills and very down-to-earth trait which has them striving for success in
whatever they do. There is a tendency for them to believe that there is a "proper " way to do things, and that their
way IS the proper way. While each member of the 4 family may be quite different, they each need a lifestyle which is built around
work, routine, caution, self-discipline, efficiency meticulous attention to detail, and ongoing positive results. 4s can be
extremely critical of those who do not work hard, or who choose to live a more unrestrained lifestyle. Social difficulties can
arise when 4 family members become resentful of those who seem to be successful without having to exert so much effort.
Loneliness is something that most 4 family members must deal with at times. To counteract this, it is essential that they reduce
their tendency to judge others by their level of productivity, and to freely and frequently partake in the unstructured lighter
side of life.
The root cause of what we call hereditary disease can be found in one's family number. By reducing the stress that this
number produces, you can reduce the possibility of hereditary diseases which are often, in the case of the 4 tribe, peculiar,
rare, mysterious, and difficult to diagnose, treat, or even locate. The 4 family stress is caused by overwork, confinement, as
well as unaddressed sadness and anger.
The 5 family came together so that its members could learn about FREEDOM, EXPERIENCE, UNIQUENESS, ADVENTURE, VARIETY, SUDDEN
CHANGE, and THE PHYSICAL and SEXUAL BODY. 5 families usually possess a strong presence and a memorable physical look. They enjoy
being 'different' and, as 5 is the number of variety, their attitudes, beliefs, temperaments, and occupations can be
amazingly diverse. Others can sense a kind of 'strangeness' in this family, while the 5 family see themselves as
completely normal. Each has their own unique view of the world and their own ideas of what success and happiness actually are.
Of course, one may say that this is true of every family but, in the case of 5s, this fact takes on a special meaning. One of
the main reasons they chose to come together in the first place was to learn about freedom both within the family itself
and out there in the big world. This family needs to travel! They also need to accept each other's differences of
opinion, lifestyle, beliefs, etc., and to let each other be themselves. Members of the 5 family often end up a very long way
from home and from each other and, yet, a strong bond exists between them. This is because they have had to deal with sudden
and sometimes traumatic circumstances and, as a result, came to accept that, over time, people, places, and environments do
shift, adapt, reverse, and otherwise change. With an emphasis on the physical body, 5s are prone to substance abuse, gambling
tendencies, or sexual promiscuity, particularly when an individual's needs for excitement and adventure are not being met.
No matter how far away from each other this family travels, they will usually support each other when needed. 5s can be very
sensitive to each others' feelings, but tensions and rifts can arise when those feelings are held inside. Openness is what
this family thrives on, and many hard lessons may have to be learned in order to achieve it.
The root cause of what we call hereditary disease can be found in one's family number. By reducing the stress that this
number produces, you can reduce the possibility of hereditary diseases such as nervous tension, mental and emotional exhaustion,
paralysis, dizziness, facial twitching (usually around the eyes), and exotic illnesses which often defy explanation. The 5 family
stress is caused by lack of freedom, restrictive relationships, being judged, overindulgence, and prolonged
boredom.
The 6 family came together so that its members could learn about LOYALTY, FAMILY, UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, EDUCATION, HEALING,
ENTERTAINMENT, INVENTION, LAW, JUDGMENT, EXTREMES, and BALANCE. The main focus of the 6 family is family - and the question of
loyalty here need never be asked. There is a sense of duty and obligation in this family which supersedes anything else that
may be going on in the world. These people have a deep sense of responsibility which, unfortunately, can often be misused in a
way that prevents the individuals in this family from being individuals. While they all seem to want the best out of life, it
is often the case that decisions are made which are based on the desires of the family's hierarchy. Children can feel
accountable to the parents, well into their adulthood and even after the parents have passed away. Life revolves around the home
and although friends may be plentiful they, too, are held to a high standard. Usually, though, the 6 household is a warm and
wonderful place to be. This is because the 6 energy thrives on entertainment, healing, and teaching. It is the number of love -
the unconditional kind - and of nurturing. To outsiders, the biggest problem with this family is the tendency to judge others
according to their own particular set of beliefs and they can sometimes go to extremes in order to make their beliefs known.
While the love within the family may be unconditional, many people who have inherited the 6 energy must learn to apply this
principle to those whose view of life is different from their own.
The root cause of what we call hereditary disease can be found in one's family number. By reducing the stress that this
number produces, you can reduce the possibility of hereditary diseases such as allergies, asthma, and all kinds of respiratory
diseases which seem to affect the ears, eyes, nose, and throat. The 6 family stress is caused by the need for power, imbalance
of power, scandal, and unaddressed guilt.
The 7 family came together so that its members could learn about SPIRITUALITY, THE INNER SELF, RETROSPECTION, PRIVACY, SECRETS,
DIGNITY, CRITICISM, SNOBBERY, and PERFECTION. There are usually secrets in the 7 family, many of which need not be secrets at
all. These people want to retain their dignity at all costs and often feel that it would be undignified to let certain truths
about themselves be known. They usually keep a low profile, and can go to great lengths to maintain what, to them, is their
privacy. The problem is that this tendency arises out of a fear of being seen as anything less that perfect. This creates a
family of worriers who suffer from headaches and, sometimes, paranoia. While they cannot bear criticism of themselves, they
tend to analyze and criticize others. However, when they become comfortable with the spiritual - intellectual - path they
chose to travel together, 7 families can achieve a level of perfection which not only allows them and others to make mistakes,
but also prompts others to seek their advice on an intellectual level. They are usually interested in the sciences, religion,
spirituality, philosophy, and/or technology and there are probably a lot of books in the family home. These people are the
thinkers of the numerological spectrum. They need quiet, peaceful, and elegant surroundings in which to delve deep into their
ultra-active minds. They must learn, however, that thinking alone achieves very little. They must learn to express their feelings
with as much passion as their thoughts as this will help to counteract the loneliness that often plagues them. They must learn
to accept the human body, along with its juices, and burps, and farts, as part of the perfection that human life is. They must
learn to accept the mundane aspects of life, along with the highlights.
The root cause of what we call hereditary disease can be found in one's family number. By reducing the stress that this
number produces, you can reduce the possibility of hereditary diseases such as insomnia, migraines, stomach and digestive illness.
The 7 family stress is caused by pessimism, intolerance, worry, shame, and the tendency to always imagine the worst.
The 8 family came together so that its members could learn about PERSONAL POWER, MONEY, THE MATERIAL ASPECTS OF LIFE, TOLERANCE,
SELF-ACCEPTANCE, LOVE, SPIRITUAL and EMOTIONAL FREEDOM. The 8 family is very focused on material and financial success and, on an
individual level, of "making something " of oneself. This is generally a reserved and tasteful family who are perfectly
willing to work hard for what they want in life. If they do not have a business of their own, they will usually gravitate toward
the solid, traditional areas of the working world, in order to make their mark and, of course, earn as much money as they
possibly can. The inherited 8 energy gives these people an air of authority and efficiency which can be of great benefit to
themselves and to their chosen work place. However, harsh words are spoken and tensions arise in this family when too much
emphasis is placed on money, prestige, and success, or when someone in the family does something which could damage their
reputation. And yet, unhappiness will also come from ignoring their genuine need for these things. Eventually, this family finds
a comfortable and loving balance in which the fruits of life can be attained, enjoyed, and shared, rather than accumulated, used
as status symbols, or ignored completely. While it is an undeniable asset to have such a deep understanding of the importance of
money, and the efficiency of business, it is also necessary to be tolerant of those who do not possess this knowledge. 8s want to
be taken seriously, and this can only be achieved by recognizing the merits of other people, and from exercising careful planning.
8s want the very best quality -- and this must also be applied to the quality of their relationships with each other and the
outside world.
The root cause of what we call hereditary disease can be found in one's family number. By reducing the stress that this
number produces, you can reduce the possibility of hereditary diseases such as headaches, constipation, rheumatism. depression,
as well as problems with the blood, joints, teeth, and bones. When illness does manifest in this family, it can sometimes be
quite exotic in nature and it is essential to get second and even third opinions. There does seem to be a tendency for
misdiagnosis, mistreatment, and incorrect prescriptions, among 8 family members. The 8 family stress is caused by denied anger,
fear of scandal or shame, and unaddressed (and unnecessary) guilt which stems from the emphasis on material and financial
matters.
The 9 family came together so that its members could learn about LOVE, EMOTIONAL HEALING, GENEROSITY, PEACE, HUMANITY, THE WORLD,
ACCEPTANCE OF REALITY, and LETTING GO. The 9 family can seem chaotic at times. Accidents occur more frequently than illnesses.
Sudden endings and unexpected beginnings take place simultaneously. Family life is often an emotional rollercoaster. The number
9 contains the energies of all the other numbers, from 1 to 8, which explains not only the diversity of this group, but also why,
between them, they seem to know something about almost everything. This is an outgoing family who will aggressively fight for
what they believe in. Of course, this simply adds to the chaos because they believe in such a wide variety of things. But there
is a common thread which runs through this group. It is made of compassion and the desire to understand, and it creates an avid
interest in global matters as well as local ones. There are times, however, when this thread becomes entangled in the everyday
pains of life and, when this happens, the personalities of these people can alter drastically. Others would be wise to stay clear
of them when they indiscriminately let go of any emotions they've been holding onto. They have inherited a trait which does
not allow for emotional denial. These people are honest - sometimes frighteningly so. Eventually, they learn that there are
appropriate times and places to vent their feelings, but they must then be careful that their sense of propriety does not
reverse the situation and disable them from expressing their emotions at all. The 9 family loves its members deeply, but there
is usually no game playing here. They are family. They are individuals. It's as simple as that.
The root cause of what we call hereditary disease can be found in one's family number. By reducing the stress that this
number produces, you can reduce the possibility of hereditary diseases which, in the case of the 9 family, could be just about
anything. The 9 family stress is caused primarily by holding their feelings in. Accidents occur in this family when its members
are not focused.
